I love lying to kids. It’s so fun. My coworker’s daughter said she speaks 2 languages and I said I spoke 17,000 and she narrowed her eyes at me and was like “… no you don’t” and it was the cutest thing.
The last time I saw her I told her I was a “half-magician” that can only do 50% of a trick, and I showed her how I can tear a piece of paper in two but can’t make it come back together, and she got soooo annoyed with me. Absolutely adorable. Lying to children is the best
so a couple days ago i got a call from uc health that they’ll accept my insurance and that i should expect to get the prior authorization for surgery soon!!! they also think they’ll be able to write a letter of necessity to my insurance to get the hotel stay (post-surgery, not for my consults) covered too!!! and i’m overjoyed bc i’ve been needing this for a long time and i’ve been trying to make surgery happen for years!!!
though i’m super fortunate to have surgery covered, i’m still in need of help to pay for supplies for my recovery, food, for two nights at a hotel (for the two consults, insurance won’t cover that), and possibly the fee for the first consult. normally insurance would cover that, but my PCP’s office messed up the top surgery letter and it might not get to insurance in time to pay for it. for my mental health and overall well-being, i don’t want to delay this any further bc of a co-pay. the reason i need so much help is bc i’m on disability for moderate-severe intractable chronic pain, and my income is about $10k a year so i’m stuck in chronic poverty. (i’m hoping to start graduate school in the spring to try and break that cycle, and it would be great to start school not dealing with debilitating dysphoria.) bc of my chronic pain (& associated conditions), recovery will be tough for me so i want to make sure i have the recovery items i need to ease pain & $ for food to ease stress.
my 1st consult is on august 24th, it’ll be with a physicians assistant and i’ll have a 2nd consult with the surgeon. i’m not sure if i book surgery at my 1st or 2nd appointment. i asked about wait times, and the nurse i spoke to said surgery could potentially happen in 2-6 months!!! and i want to be ready for surgery at any time, like if i get called to move up on the waitlist. i’ll update this post or pin a post or something once i have the prior authorization for proof (i’m open to showing other forms of proof too).
i don’t wanna pressure ppl to buy something or send $ or whatever, i don’t want ppl sending $ if they’re like barely scraping by. i do wanna say that i really need this to happen for me and if you wanna help out it will be sooo very appreciated. i don’t expect to raise everything listed, i’m trying my best to not have to pay that co-pay, and i’m trying to see if i can find someone who has enough hotel points for 2 nights in the denver area (if you do, hmu!). the wishlist items + $ for gas are definitely my priorities!
pls don’t tag with words that’ll affect this post. and thank y’all for reading <3
1 / 15 items purchased
$0 / $640 (not including the $320 i *might* have to pay)
today (8/18) is a week since i made this post, and i have received NO d*nations on tumblr / across all social media
thankfully me & my friends have raised $150 so that’s something! also, i was able to buy the medical marijuana related stuff for recovery (there was a HUGE sale i took advantage of) so that’s something off the list even though now i have like $40 for the rest of the month. just to reiterate, if anyone has hotel points for 2 nights they’d like to contribute, that would be huge! or if anyone has any food-related gift cards, i’m food insecure, i don’t wanna be worrying about $ for food while recovering, and i won’t be able to cook for about 4 weeks.
It’s Hurricane Season so I’d like to share some advice as a life-long Floridian who’s experienced a few things. This is going to be directed primarily to people living in areas at risk of blackouts which could last several days.
Preparations
Aside from food, water, and gas, some things you’ll want to make sure you have are flashlights and batteries. Make sure to refill any medications you might need.
Get raincoats in case you need to go outside cause the wind will destroy any umbrellas.. If you can’t get one, take a garbage bag and tear a face hole into it and use that.
Also, get bug repellent, especially mosquito repellent. Mosquitos breed around still water and there will be a lot of still water.
You might want to buy some gardening gloves as well to make the post-storm cleanup safer.
SUPER IMPORTANT FOR SANITY AND SANITATION: get caught up on laundry and dishes. No power means no running water. Don’t make things worse by not having clean dishes or clean clothes to use. While you’re cleaning, change your bed sheets as well. Once you have power, change your sheets again.
Also, download any games, ebooks, shows, etc you can onto any battery-charged electronic devices you have. It will help your sanity when all you can do is wait.
Finally, while you should ideally board up your windows to protect them from debris, make sure at the minimum that all your windows are closed. Wind pressures are going to suck air out of any openings in your home.
Food and Water
First and most important: DO NOT BE A HOARDER!!
Even if your home has no power, that doesn’t mean your local grocery store has no power. You can expect some reduced supply due to damaged supply lines and a spike in demand, but you shouldn’t be worrying about empty shelves. At worst, have the amount of supplies you might need for 10 days. If you normally go to the grocery store every 2 weeks or longer, just stock up the amount you normally would.
Buy more items that are less likely to spoil and don’t need refrigeration. When you have no power, prioritize eating anything which requires refrigeration (milk, cheese, meats) or has a short shelf life (bread).
Demand will be higher in preparation, and supply will be diminished for a bit, but supply issues only become unbearable when people start hoarding.
As for water, you’ll need a surplus since you need water for so much. I cannot stress this particular part enough:
You need water to flush your toilet.
If there’s somewhere with running water you can go when you need to poop, use that whenever possible, but you need water available at home to refill your toilet’s cistern if you don’t have that option (either time, distance, etc).
Make sure you have a supply of drinking water. Don’t go buying every water bottle you can find (See the bit about hoarding), but you should buy more than you might normally use. Instead, gather water through things like your sink or from a hose into any sealable containers you might have . If you have a bathtub, fill it up just before the hurricane. If you have a pool, that’s another source of water. If no debris got in the pool, you can use it for bathing. If you have empty buckets, you can get some additional water during the hurricane by filling them with large rocks or bricks and leaving them out in the open to collect the rain water.
Different water sources will be used for different purposes:
bottled, canned, or other store-bought water: Drinking, cooking, and refrigeration (explained later)
Water in unsealed containers: refill the toilet cistern
Water in a sealed containers: bathing and cleaning (Can also be used for the toilet)
As mentioned with food, supplies at your grocer will be reduced but not necessarily empty. You should be able to buy enough additional drinking water and be able to also use it for cleaning, giving you more water for the toilet. The tip about gathering rain water will only work once. There will likely be no rain for at least a week afterward.
In case you need to evacuate
Keep tabs on whatever emergency alerts are available. Check what your local radio channel is or what sites to check online. Make sure you know how to get to your local shelter, including alternate paths in case a road is inaccessible.
Load your vehicle with anything you might need to bring with you before the storm so you don’t have to spend time looking for them and double checking when every minute could count. Pack some pillows, blankets, and extra clothes just in case. Also include anything you cannot risk losing for school or work like laptops.
Refrigeration
Without power, your fridge is now just a giant cooler and a ticking bomb to being a biohazard. Fill it up as much as possible. Cold air escapes easily when you open it and heat disperses fastest throw the air. Remember how I said you should buy extra water? A fridge filled with cold water will stay cooler longer. Any liquid will do. Fill your fridge with water bottles, soda cans, beer, fruit juice, whatever. As long as it doesn’t spoil at room temperature. Milk can technically help too, but since it spoils you shouldn’t keep much of it and should use it quickly.
Additional things like fruits and veggies will also help. What matters is you want to reduce the amount of empty space and fill it with anything which can keep the temperature down. Put a frozen block of iron in for all I care. Just don’t have a super empty fridge.
If you have a generator
Good for you. You’re not completely without power now. But you need to set priorities on what to use it for. Generators can only supply so much power at a time so you can’t just hook everything to it and expect things to work out.
Top priority is the fridge. Twice a day, morning and evening, plug the fridge to the generator and let it run for two hours to cool things down. Don’t hook up the fridge when you don’t expect to open it (like when everyone is asleep).
Second priority should be charging cell phones, laptops, and anything else like that. Depending on your circumstances, you can charge them at work, from your car, etc so only hook them up when batteries are low.
Third, comfort. I understand this will be stressful, but hooking up your tv and gaming computer isn’t the best idea. If you’ve done what I suggested earlier, you’ll at least have something to watch or do without needing to hook it to your generator. Like with the above electronics, you might be able to find other ways to charge them, but only attach them to your generator when you don’t need to worry about necessities.
Finally for the love of god, DO NOT HOOK AN AC TO THE GENERATOR!!. Air conditioners draw a lot of power, especially once the room is hot. But your generator can only do so much. The AC will kill your power supply really quickly. Use a fan or the AC in your vehicle if you need to cool down.
Also worth noting, if you have an electric vehicle, that could potentially be used as well. I don’t know specifics, but look into that if you own one.
Final notes
This is not comprehensive and I may be wrong about some things.
Please refer to actual expert sources for comprehensive help.
This is just suggestions from someone who has to deal with this every year and has figured out how to deal with the aftermath. Your living conditions may be different so please check how to handle any concerns unique to you.
